We all know that men are stirred sexually through visual stimulants. This explains why men prefer reading porn magazines while women prefer reading love-story pocket books. This principle also explains why men want having sex with the lights on so they can see the curves, moves, and reactions of their partner. Also, men find it very stimulating if women are on top during sex; this position allows them to have a full view of their partner’s body, according to studies. This maybe an ideal situation (or position) for most guys, but some gals are not comfortable having sex in a bright-lighted place. Women have plenty of body-image hang-ups and having sex in a dark place will allow them to forget it. Women by nature loves reassurance, even if some women have hot bodies, they will always long for men’s regular complements.
To convince your female partner to turn on the lights during sex, try to tell her that her thighs and legs are gorgeous. Complement her butt, her lips, and every single part of her body. Then slowly lighten the place, one candle, two candles, then the lamp shade, and start telling her how much it turns you on seeing her during sex. The last thing you know, she’s already on top of you on broad daylight.
As a final note, sex is the ultimate expression of love. If both of you have a passionate love for each other, not even darkness can stop you from expressing that burning desire.
